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Preparing For Your First Date
Sep 09, 2012

The first date with someone you really like is a very special event.  It is the beginning of a love story that could result in the transformation from a relationship to something as serious as marriage.  When couples reminisce, they often go down to memory lane and recall their first date.   For this reason, it can be extremely nerve-wracking for many people when they are about to experience this special time with their new special someone.

No matter where you go or what you plan to do for the date, it is crucial that you look your best.  First impressions matter a lot, and in many cases it lasts a long time.  This is when getting things right should be on your mind.  That said, try to relax and just be the person you are.  Men have the notion that they have to impress a lady by telling her how much money he makes, or if he’s got an vacation home in another country.  A guy who is looking to land a great woman should allow her to take him as he is.

Choose your topics of discussion wisely.  Steer clear from topics that might offend her, such as current financial situation, sex and other personal topics that might be considered too invasive for comfort.  Discuss hobbies, perhaps describe what a perfect day would be, ask about her family if she is willing to share that with you.  Remember that she would also like to know more about you, so don’t hesitate to share.  Women love a man who is not afraid to show his weaknesses so don’t be afraid to tell her more about your hardships (e.g. if you have been raised by a single mother, and so on).

A sign of a wonderful man is one that is protective and caring.  So if you want to be that type of guy, offer or insist to pick her up for the date.  Some guys will opt to meet at the agreed location, but believe it or not most women prefer to be picked up.  If she agrees, do so where it is most convenient for her.  If she feels it might be too early for you to know where she lives then ask that you meet at a safe and nearby place.  Insist to drop her home after, especially if it is dark then.  Her safety is in your hands.

The objective of the date is to encourage a conversation with the woman you are attracted to in the hope that it can develop into something very special for both of you.  Many guys will make the mistake of selecting a location such as a movie theatre on their first date.  Although this seems like the popular choice of place, it is generally a bad idea.  This is because you will spend the time sitting next to each other and watching the movie, without being able to talk.  So going out for movies is not recommended for the first date.  Choose a restaurant for dinner, or for those who prefers something wild and exciting, perhaps a theme park.  Always pick a location that is public and safe.

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